Thursday, 17 April 2014

The Love Game~



"Love, how are you? It has been long since we met. What happened to your hand phone number?” she asked.
“Who are you?” he answered, with a stern voice.
She, looking confused, looked directly into his eyes and said “Your Stella! You forgot me?”
“I’ve never met you in my life!” he told, while pushing her and walked away.
She ran behind him while crying out loud, shouting his name out.
“Daniel, Daniel!”
Observing the entire situation, an elderly woman ran after them on held both of them.
“Who the hell are you now? What is she? Mad or something?” he shouted.
“ARE YOU TRYING TO CHEAT HER AND RUN AWAY?” the elderly woman raised her voice to him.
The man then grumbling took his I.C. and showed that his name which was stated as Gabriel and said to her that he is on the way to see his girlfriend showing a card and a rose to her.
She then apologized to Gabriel and stood there, very, very confused. She didn’t realise that she left Stella to walk away.

I was standing opposite the road and observed everything happened.
Stella, walked away, and when my friend, Kelvin walked pass him, she did it all over again.
I stood there, shocked! The elderly woman was even more confused. LIKE, WHAT THE HELL?!?!
That’s when I interupted saying that it is Kelvin, and not Daniel Stella was looking for.
Madam Kelly, this time held her hands tight and asked me if I have seen her anywhere around. I said no. That’s when I knew the woman in her late 40’s was Madam Kelly, an activist who fight against Women Abuse.
She said that she is going to bring her back and examine what is wrong with Stella.
 I introduced myself as a trainee journalist and told her that I’ll be ready to help them in case they need anything.
Madam Kelly was very happy to hear those words as she said not many young women are prepared to offer in a helping hand.
I then told I would happy to hear more about Stella and Madam Kelly promised to update me about Stella.
After two days, she contacted me saying that Stella was only 17 and she eloped from her house. Stella was then raped by several people (Madam Kelly didn’t exactly say how many person did it) and it affected her mentally. Thus, she goes behind every men in the search for her DANIEL!
When I questioned about her health, Madam Kelly mentioned that she can be cured as long as she can stay strong.
 And then we talked about the formalities- nothing that interesting to stay about.
My point of posting this incident in my life is, because of the unsatisfied feeling I have for the young girls these days.
A frank question, How stupid and blind can you get to elope with a guy at the age of 17? I'm not dumb enough to blame any other parties on these issue. What influenced your brain to elope at the tender age of 17? What did you guys grow up watching with?

 I grew up watching Cinderella. Cinderella did not teach me life is always as easy as meeting and falling with a prince charming and living happily ever after, but it taught me that though however hardships you face in your life right at this moment, you don’t have to elope with a guy. Stay and face your problem! The man up there is planning for something better for you, don’t ruin it by eloping.

So reading that, some girls can ask me back, “What is that is the guy God sent me?” My answer is very simple, if he wants to elope with you, he is not the right guy! THAT’S FREAKING IT!
He who is asking you to elope with him promising for a better future together when you haven’t met his parents is a gentleman? THINK AGAIN WOMAN! Sweet talks doesn’t pay your expenses to live!
This is why I encourage people around me, especially girls to dream for luxury for their future. And that is definitely not because they should be money-minded or find for a rich guy for their life. It is because they should earn enough to support them financially and treat themselves with the luxury they deserve. BE INDEPENDENT! Not depending on another man for everything- Don’t make your life grey! Is that too much to ask for?

Love is not something to be traded in for or a trump card in life. Love is not only sexual pleasures. Lots of youngsters these days forgetting that. If you sleep with a guy or live together under the same roof with a men, then what are you treasuring for the “after marriage” life?
Imagine you walking down the aisle for THE MAN suited up with the finest suit available and you wearing a white beautiful vintage set of laced gown of your dreams. With your parents and his, cherishing the beautiful moment. When you father is proud for finding the right man, when you see your mother being speechless at a corner while the tears of happiness rolls down her cheeks. When your siblings busy taking photos on how pretty you made your day look. Isn’t that supposed to be the dream rather than ending up with a man you just met several months (or even several weeks) ago on the bed just for sex? Where’s the word dignity and pride, which I consider the most important thing for every woman after her soul!
Love is love. You don’t force it to happen or you don’t plan for it. When you meet the right person, you’ll know it! So, why rush? Keep calm and enjoy every minute of your life! Don’t waste your time planning for the future or designing the prince charming. Life doesn’t work that way and you are gonna set a frame for your man to live within. Your life is gonna be such mechanical then. You want it that way? Your call now!
I hope these post of mine has influenced at least 1 young girl before losing her virginity to the wrong man!
Thanks for reading guys!
Hope all of my posts has keeping you guys interested to follow my upcoming post- If there are any comments, please feel free to comment on this article or inbox me in Facebook. I.D. Tharu Raj :)

Till my next post, Cheers!
Good night and thanks
By,

BrokenSpecs XoXo

P.S. I have changed all the names involved in the above conversation in the motive for not invading any privacy

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