FRENEMIES

   You are a teenager and you want to tell me that you haven't come across these kindda people? That can only mean that, you don't know the definition of the term FRENEMIES. It simply means that a person in your life, is your friend, and also your enemy. Now you get it? Like Friend, like enemy, like, FRENEMY? Just tell me you guys get it!

   To my current course mate here in my college, JJ, I'm like her really awesome friend ( she mentioned it anonymously in the first post of this blog earlier on 11.03.2014). It took me so much of pain and heartbreaks in my friend's circle to actually build one solid friendship, like the one I share with JJ and also not forgetting my best friend, Josephine Serena. So, what was the problems I faced? Frenemies! Let me get in brief explanations about the types of FRENEMIES I identified in my life previously~ 

1) Leeches EVERYWHERE!

I don't want to mention names but yeah, you will never escape from this kindda people. I was trapped in the middle of this type of people not only during my high school time, but also during my college years! I really don't know whether this type of people realize about their doings or not. 

Yea, basically, this is the truth of leech people. They only talk to you, or be nice to you, when they need something from you. Other than that, you actually vanish from their sight! LIKE LITERALLY VANISH!!!When you speak something to them also, it falls on their deaf ears.... 

TRUE STORY!

2) JEALOUSY!

Such a girly thing- JEALOUSY BETWEEN FRIENDS...And, I'm like WTH?!? My definition of a true friend is someone who pushes you to shine, and who is there to hold you when you fall apart. 

{like my Josephine! ~She's  the BEST!~}

Many girls don't get it, there are competitions but no satisfaction on what has the friend succeeded. There is the urge to move forward, but these people are also willing to push their friends back, just for their success. Isn't that very sick? But, ya, that is the fact of life today~especially between the teenage girls and young women! FRENEMIES~yeah, that's the word!

3)Backstabbing

Quite common right? You have back stabbed anyone before? You got back stabbed before? You have either felt the pain or made someone else to feel it ~you know yourself the best!~ With backstabbing friends around you, do you actually need enemies? Nah... you wrongly labelled your friends. That basically talks about FRENEMIES!

I've got back stabbed,only like a million times. From my close friends, so yeah, the photo on top here, is totally for me. I HAVE TRUST ISSUES, LIKE SERIOUS TRUST ISSUES! 

4) Two faced douche-bags friends we have, whom actually gossips about us!

This is one of the common thing in a girl's routine, to GOSSIP!It is always there! And, what experience taught me was, most gossipers are TWO FACED DOUCHE-BAGS! They come and get really close with you to get your personal issues out, then broadcast it to the whole world and comes back to you like nothing happened and they are the most innocent human being in the world. So relatable right? I know! EXPERIENCE IS ALWAYS THE BEST TEACHER!

Moral of this article, know your friends, and your frenemies! It is really important to know whom you are surrounded with.  Don't cry over unwanted human beings because as a true friend, when you care for them so much, you will soon lean that you don't mean anything to them after all. Even if you have a handful of friends whom are true buddy, I would say that is enough! You don't need a big group of fake people to actually survive! So keep you heads up because your tiara is falling babe!

Cheers!

By, 

BrokenSpecs